AndroidDatePicker | DatePicker - | Datepicker library

I have a component with four different lists of items. An item is placed in a list depending on the date. When the user clicks a button to change the date of that item a modal appears with a date picker (the item's dateModalVisbility prop switches to true). This works as expected but then if an item's date change causes it to switch lists, the date picker modal disappears without the prop switching to false. Then when you click the button to reopen it switches to false and then after another press switches back to true and reopens. I believe this is caused by the rerender of the item when it switches into a different list.

I would like to force the modal to stay open even when it switches lists. I have tried making the different lists functions that I call before anything else renders but this did not solve the issue. I am out of ideas and unsure if this is even possible to do.

My flatlists (this.props.todos comes from redux):